News After my sister’s death, there’s no formula for healing. But there is a way you can help. March 8, 2019 Jessica Fay-Carrano, Opinion contributor Comments Off on After my sister’s death, there’s no formula for healing. But there is a way you can help. How can I even put into words the grief that consumes me? Don't try to talk me through it; don't try to force me to talk about it. Just be there.